Month: January 2023

Embracing Reality: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth

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Introducing a thought-provoking poem about the journey of accepting reality. This journey is one that requires courage, strength, and an open mind. It involves letting go of our illusions, dreams, and misconceptions and embracing the truth, no matter how harsh it may seem.

This poem highlights the beauty in imperfections and the power in vulnerability. It inspires us to appreciate the reality of our lives, find joy in the present moment, and achieve peace and happiness. Join me as we explore this theme and find solace in the words of this inspiring poem.

Accepting reality is a journey we must make,
For it’s the path that helps us to awaken.
From the illusions we’ve built and the dreams we chase,
To the truth that we all must face.

It takes bravery and strength, to open our eyes,
To the world that can be harsh and unkind.
But once we do, it’s a journey of growth,
As we learn to find peace and happiness, in what we know.

We see the beauty in the imperfections,
And the strength in our vulnerabilities.
We learn to appreciate what’s real,
And find joy at the moment, without a deal.

So let us take a step, towards accepting the truth,
And leave behind the pain of our youth.
For it’s in this journey, that we find our way,
To a life of peace, acceptance, and true bliss every day.

In conclusion, accepting reality is a process of growth and self-discovery. It requires us to let go of our preconceived notions and embrace the truth, no matter how difficult it may seem. By doing so, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities, where we can find peace, happiness, and true contentment in life. The poem we discussed today serves as a reminder of this journey and encourages us to take the first step toward a more fulfilling life. We hope this piece of writing has inspired you and has provided you with a new perspective on the importance of accepting reality.

“The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.” –
Gloria Steinem

Facing the Reality: Coping with the Loss of Near Relatives in the Coffin

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This was my first time in my entire life seeing someone in a coffin. It was really a difficult and emotional experience. Initially, it’s a bit hard for me to come to terms with the reality of death and the finality of loss. However, it is also an important step in the grieving process, as it allows us to say goodbye and begin to accept the loss.

When viewing someone in a coffin, it can be overwhelming to take in the sight of them looking so still and peaceful. It can be difficult to reconcile this image with the vibrant person we knew. It may also be hard to process the fact that this person is no longer alive and will never be able to speak or move again. However, it is important to remember that the person in the coffin is not really gone. They live on in our memories and the love that they shared with us. Seeing them in a coffin is a reminder that death is a part of life and that our time on earth is finite.

During the last two days of my time, I think and experienced quite a bit. Thus, I would like to express my feelings and come to terms with the grief.

Death, the great equalizer,

Comes for us all in time.

A thief in the night,

Stealing life from the living.

We mourn for what could have been,

For dreams left unfulfilled.

We grieve for the laughter and love,

Now forever stilled.

But death is not the end,

For memories live on.

In every smile and every tear,

Our loved ones live on.

So let us not fear death,

But embrace it with grace.

For in death, we are reunited,

In a final resting place.

And though our time on earth is brief,

Our spirits will endure.

For in death, we find eternal life,

And forevermore.

This is a reminder to cherish the time we have with our loved ones and to make the most of every moment. Remember that the person we lost will always be with us in our memories and the love they shared.

Escape the Noise of City Life in Khao Kho

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It’s been three years since the world was turned upside down by the pandemic, and I feel incredibly grateful to be able to travel again. I had the privilege of taking a trip to the beautiful town of Khao Kho, and it was an experience I will never forget. After a long 5.5 hour car drive, my friend and I finally reached our destination, and we were greeted by the picturesque town and the cool temperatures.

Each day was filled with adventure as we explored the local area, from catching breathtaking sunrises to trekking through the lush National Park. The natural beauty that surrounded us was simply awe-inspiring, and I found myself constantly reaching for my camera to capture the stunning views.

One of the highlights of the trip was waking up about 5:30am to catch sunrise at one beautiful spot located at Phu Thap Boek. It is a 1,768m high mountain in Phetchabun Province. The mountain was accessible by a car drive upward. Although this place is not widely known among foreign trackers. Nonetheless, for one who nature calls and seeks for somewhere, you must not miss this mountain. Immerse myself in the beauty of cold fresh air and greeted with bright orange sun was gorgeous. What a grand scene of panoramic vista.

After watching sunrise, we went trekking inside the national park located nearby, Phu Hin Rong Kla National Park. There are many viewpoints to go but we chose a few to visit. The cliff features of this bizarre rock formations is called Lan Hin Poom. It was really an unique element of the park. It was about 4km walk. The weather was cool that we trek with our jacket on without perspiring. Most importantly, humidity is LOW! The trail were surrounded by towering trees and the chirping of birds. We also had the chance to witness the stunning view from the dramatic cliff rock face.

In addition to the natural beauty, we also had the opportunity to sample the delicious local cuisine, from the tangy and spicy tom yum to the rich and flavorful khao Kho. The laid-back atmosphere of the small town only added to the overall tranquility of the trip.

Overall, this trip was a much-needed break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, and it reminded me of the beauty of nature and the simple pleasures in life. The memories I made on this trip will stay with me forever, and I can’t wait to plan my next adventure. If you’re looking for a peaceful and rejuvenating getaway, Khao Kho is definitely worth a visit but be prepared for the long car drive up the hill from Bangkok.

The world is big and I want to have a good look at it before it gets dark. – John Muir

How to Stay Focused and Accomplish Your Goals in 2023

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It has always been a habit to reflect on the past year we have all had in 2022. We has been living with COVID-19 for close to three years now, and has said it plans to treat the disease as endemic. Meaning that it continues to circulate at low levels in the population and causes occasional outbreaks. With this, most COVID-19 travel measures has been removed for fully vaccinated individuals.

2022 has had trials and tribulations for most of us. We can all look back on the year we’ve experienced appreciate all of the wonderful times, and take lessons from the not so great moments. Learning from experiences is a growth. Every win and every challenge opens up a door for discovery and opportunities.

Now, 2023 is here. The new year is all about becoming a better version of yourself and who you would like to bring into the new year. The start of each New Year is a time to reflect on the year just past and make plans for the future. It holds a special magic, with a promise of new opportunities and the possibility to change our lives for the better. It’s also a great time to bond over old memories as you endeavor to make more.

Setting goals can be a helpful way to focus your efforts and work towards achieving what you want in life. Here are a few tips that you can follow to set goals for 2023:

1. Reflect on what you want to achieve: Take some time to think about what is most important to you and what you want to accomplish in the coming year. Consider your values, strengths, and areas for improvement.

2. Make your goals specific and measurable: Instead of setting a general goal like “get in shape,” try setting a specific goal like “lose 5 kg weight” or “run a 5k.” This will make it easier to track your progress and stay motivated.

3. Set achievable goals: It’s important to set goals that are challenging, but also realistic and achievable. Consider your current circumstances and resources when setting goals to ensure they are within reach.

4. Set a deadline: Having a deadline can help you stay focused and motivated. Make sure to set a specific date for achieving your goal.

5. Make a plan: Break your goal down into smaller, actionable steps and create a plan for how you will achieve each one. This will help you stay on track and make progress towards your goal.

6. Monitor your progress: Regularly review your progress and adjust your plan as needed. Celebrate small victories along the way and don’t be too hard on yourself if you encounter setbacks.

Life is unpredictable and things don’t always go as planned. Therefore, it is important to be flexible and adapt to change. The choices we make and the actions we take can have a profound impact on our lives and the lives of those around us. Do be mindful of this and consider the consequences of every actions taken.

Image taken from Genting Highland, Chin Swee Caves Temple

Since the horse is a majestic animal that embodies the spiritual power of independence, freedom, nobleness, endurance, confidence, triumph, heroism and competition, I hope 2023 be the year we tap frequently into the power of strength, courage, and freedom to find true peace and grow into the best version of yourself.

Get ready for a year of amazing blessings!

“Today I choose life. To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices–today I choose to feel life, not to deny tmy humanity but embrace it.”
– Kevyn Aucoin